Jeff Bezos is known for talking about customer service a lot, which is probably why Amazon is a shopping giant today.
It’s not far-fetched to say the customer determines the success of your business.
It has always been true, but it is even truer in this age where things can go viral.
A disgruntled customer can do more harm to your business than ever before.
That means building a relationship with your customers is more important than ever before.
I know you agree with me, and that’s why you are reading this.
So, since I don’t have to convince you too much, let’s look at the different ways to build a relationship with your customers.
Beginner’s Guide to Building a Relationship with Your Customers
1. Know Your Customers
You can’t build a meaningful relationship with someone you don’t understand.
As it is in the world of friendship or romance, so it is in the business world.
So the first lesson in our customer relations 101 class is to take the time to learn about your customers.
Learn who they are, what they care about, and what problems they need solved.
There are different ways to do this.
You can use surveys, social media polls, and analytics to gather insights. Particularly, metrics like the favourite products, age, income range and sex of customers are very important to building a buyer persona.
However, the most effective way to know your customer is through social listening. People can lie on surveys, or they do not care enough to be honest, but they often are honest in their tweets.
They are more relaxed on social media and would likely post their genuine feelings.
So you need to put your ear to the ground and monitor mentions to know what your customers really need.
The more you know, the better you can serve them.
Also, when people feel seen and understood, they naturally become loyal.
It’s just like any real relationship; the more you invest in understanding them, the deeper your connection to them.
2. Listen to Your Customers
Again, social listening!
But much more than that, this is actively listening to your customers across the board.
This is actually hearing what they are saying to understand and serve them better.
However, you can’t always wait for customers to tell you things. You must proactively monitor their feedback through reviews, social comments, and emails.
Are they frustrated?
Confused?
Or excited?
Also, let them know you’re paying attention by responding and making improvements based on their input.
Don’t just promise to do something, make sure to do it.
And if it’s not feasible, let them know why and how you are committed to serving them, rather than giving false promises.
When customers see that their voice influences your brand, they reward you with their loyalty.
3. Prioritise Customer Experience
Customer experience is one aspect of your business you need to take seriously. You must make sure your customers have only good things to say about you.
Of course, you won’t be able to control everything. But ensure errors are unavoidable as much as you can.
Make sure every touch point is enjoyable, because they all matter; from the moment someone lands on your website to the support they receive after purchase.
Let them feel your warmth and care, and not feel like just another number.
If you provide a great customer experience, people will want to come back.
More importantly, they will want to tell others about you.
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4. Build a Strong Customer Support Structure
This is somewhat part of the last point, but I wanted to make it a standalone point because of how essential it is to building a strong relationship with your customers.
Make it a point in your business policy that a customer is never stranded when they need help.
Your staff must know this as well. They must know the customer is king and treating them otherwise will not be tolerated.
Then, you need to invest in a reliable, responsive support system, so they can contact you easily through whatever means you can afford and handle properly.
It is better for you to only use email than have other mediums as well that you can’t handle.
If you won’t be available 24/7, make that clear, or they will assume you will.
Additionally, empower your support team to solve problems efficiently and kindly. Train them to manage their temper even when frustrated.
You must never make people jump through hoops just to get answers. Not if you want continuous confidence in your brand.
5. Give Constant Updates
Don’t ghost your customers after they’ve purchased from you.
Keep nurturing them by keeping them in the loop.
Let them know about their order status, product changes, or exciting upcoming offers.
One, it keeps you constantly in their mind as their go-to, and secondly, it shows that you’re respectful of their service.
6. Reward Loyalty
I honestly struggle to understand solopreneurs or small businesses who find this challenging.
The reason is that I can understand how difficult it is to keep up with your customers if you are a conglomerate like Coca-Cola.
But when you are a small brand, I think you should know some regular customers by name.
So, making them feel special should come easily.
But even if you don’t know them by name personally, there are apps these days to help you track returning customers.
Get their data and reward them.
Loyal customers are gold, let me tell you. You want to keep them in your corner because they don’t just come back for more; they bring others with them.
So show them some love by offering exclusive discounts, early access to new products, or even a simple thank-you note.
Loyalty programs don’t have to be fancy; they just have to feel personal.
When people feel appreciated, they’re more likely to stay and keep coming back.
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7. Engage Your Customers
Don’t wait for your customers to reach out; go to them.
Interact with them on social media, ask them questions, comment on their posts, and create content that invites conversation.
It makes your brand feel alive and relatable, rather than just an entity that can’t be touched.
These days, customers don’t just want to buy, they want to feel like they’re part of a community.
You are likely to get more people to stay with you if they feel like they are investing in a brand they know, one they are pals with.
8. Treat Them Like Humans
This might sound obvious, but it’s worth repeating: your customers are human beings, not just transactions.
I understand that you are there to make a profit; your customers know that too, but they don’t want it thrown in their faces.
They want to be spoken to like real people, not numbers.
So, you must always add a human touch to your messaging.
Be empathetic when they’re frustrated, celebrate them when they win, and thank them sincerely.
This way, you create an emotional connection with them.
9. Personalise Messaging
Segueing from the previous point, nobody wants to receive generic emails that feel like they were meant for the masses.
So, rather than sending messages that look like broadcast messages, leverage personalisation features on marketing platforms.
Today’s tools make it easy to tailor communication, so you have no excuse.
Use their names, recommend products based on their preferences, and celebrate personal milestones like birthdays.
Personalisation shows that you pay attention. It makes them feel special, and special customers stick around.
10. Be Honest
People value honesty more than perfection.
They know you will make mistakes sometimes because you are human, but they might not forgive lies. This doesn’t mean you should be careless, but one or two mistakes, especially from a small brand, are tolerable.
What isn’t is you lying about it, getting angsty when they complain or trying to cover up for errors.
Rather, if you mess up, own it.
If there’s a delay, say so.
If there was an error, let them know.
Don’t lie to them.
Trust me, you don’t want to be caught in a lie these days. It will terribly affect your business.
On the other hand, customers appreciate brands that keep it real, even when things don’t go according to plan.
When they know you’re honest, they’re more likely to forgive your mistakes and continue the relationship.
FAQs
1. What are the 4 C’s of a good customer relationship?
The 4 C’s are Communication, Consistency, Commitment, and Care. Communication means actively listening and responding to your customers. Consistency is about delivering a reliable experience every time. Commitment shows customers you’re in it for the long haul. And Care means treating them like humans, not just sales. Master these four, and you’re well on your way to building lasting customer relationships.
2. How to build connections with customers?
Start by genuinely understanding who they are and what they need. Then, listen to their feedback, personalise your communication, and engage with them beyond just selling. Make them feel heard, valued, and appreciated. Simple actions like replying to a comment, sending a thank-you message, or remembering their preferences go a long way. People connect with brands that feel human, so be warm, honest, and relatable.
3. How do you establish a relationship with a client?
Establishing a relationship with a client starts with trust. You need to be transparent, follow through on your promises, and communicate clearly. Make sure to understand their goals and show that you’re here to support them, not just complete a transaction. Do this through regular check-ins, thoughtful updates, and asking for their input. When clients feel like you genuinely care about their success, the relationship moves from transactional to long-term partnership.
